LEARN TO SAY NO

upon all request for favors,YES or NO used to be the answer.people always expect yes to be your answer as it suits their instincts, but in the rarest occasions learn to say NO.Their exist a reason behind that.

 saying NO doesn't represent negativity rather it clarifies the mindset of the person behind that answer and also gives meaning to what he answered with suitable yes in the previous times.

Many times we are confronted with somethings that requires our actions, favor, knowledge and resources.It  is imperative you know when exactly you need to say No.Becouse you don't live your for others and when you move on to accept what people brings up to you at all instances, people may likely take you and what you do to them for granted.

supposing you have a phone call at a time when you feel uncomfortable and inconvenient to pick up your phone, then just forget about it.making such decisions will make you a better person in terms of decision making and save you from having any iota of regret while you talk during your most inconvenient situation.

things like saying no when you feel not alright about something might sound awkward if you are not used to it.But try it in some situations and you shall appreciate the outcome. however ,Being able to decline professionally and courteously is a crucial ability that will help you succeed at work and in different scenarios.So now we take a deep dive on how to say no in the workplace,among friends and even siblings,provides several instances, and offers advice on how to do so.

Tips on saying no 

To decline labor at your place of employment or any other place,follow these suggestions:

Don't ever apologize.Never apologize and always provide irrational reasons when declining anything. It may not sound professional to apologize while turning down request or jobs.

Don't ever lie.Never present a fake explanation when declining someone's request for labor or a favor. It is not appropriate to lie.

Be considerate.Be kind even in the face of refusal. Refusals are more easily understood by others when you are kind.

Have fun saying no.Try saying no to things by visualizing a situation you could face.A buddy can help you practice it.

Act boldly.Maintaining eye contact might assist you communicate to the listener that you are rejecting them a favor or assignment.

Some tactful ways to politely decline a request for favors or jobs 

You can take control of your life,career and do well at work if you can say no. Utilize these instances to gently decline an offer from a coworker, friends or even siblings.

"Acquiring more responsibility would be a fantastic opportunity for me, but I have a busy week ahead of me due to multiple meetings with financial stakeholders." I propose that let begin the first work, and in a month I may join him.

"Thank you for your offer, but I am unable to accept it."

"I don't have enough time right now to finish it. I know of someone who can assist you."

"I would be happy to join you, but I have too much work on my plate right now."

"I previously had a bad experience on a project that was comparable. I thus want to turn down the existing offer.

"I really appreciate the invitation to the conference, but I always make sure to attend my son's birthday on that day."

"I can help you promote your event on my personal and professional blog, but I cannot become a speaker at your event."

"Thank you for your inquiry, but I am currently working on a project that requires a deadline, so I am not taking on any additional work."

"No, I'm grateful. If you had agreed to my idea, I would have been grateful."

"I've been overspending recently, so I'm off. Can I arrive at the party once my pay has arrived?

"I'm afraid I can't say yes, but I hope you have luck finishing your project."